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一段糟糕的戀愛關(guān)系，為什么很多人仍可維持很久
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一段糟糕的戀愛關(guān)系，為什么很多人仍可維持很久

Most people wait FOUR years to end a bad relationship - here’s why

一段糟糕的戀愛關(guān)系，為什么很多人仍可維持很久

Would you consider staying in a relationship even though you know deep down it’s bad for you?

如果你深知現(xiàn)在的伴侶并不是對(duì)的人，你會(huì)考慮繼續(xù)維持下去嗎?

Well, you’re not the only one. The average person in a bad relationship waits four years before breaking it off - and that’s mostly down to fear of the ’single life’.

如果你的回答是肯定的，不要覺(jué)得自己是個(gè)奇葩。調(diào)查顯示，人們平均花四年的時(shí)間結(jié)束一段糟糕的感情，通常是因?yàn)楹ε伦兓亍皢紊硗簟薄?/font>

In Britain, two million people are in a relationship with somebody who is not right for them. Despite this, just one in four intend to end their mismatched union.

在英國(guó)，兩百萬(wàn)人和不適合自己的人在一起，但是只有四分之一的人想要結(jié)束這段感情。

According to research by relationship site eHarmony.co.uk – fear of being alone, pity for their partner and concern over how the rest of the family will be affected are the major reasons why people stay in relationships they know are wrong for them.

根據(jù)婚戀交友網(wǎng)站 eHarmony.co.uk 的調(diào)查，人們維持一段不樂(lè)觀的感情主要有三種原因：害怕孤單，舍不得傷害伴侶，以及擔(dān)心影響到家人。

But why are we so unhappy in love?

我們?yōu)槭裁丛谝欢胃星槔锔械讲婚_心呢？

Long-term compatibility is the main concern, with nearly half (41%) saying they don’t see a future with their partner and a third (34%) stating that they want different things from life. A sad 20% admit they simply don’t love their partner.

長(zhǎng)期的包容會(huì)讓情侶產(chǎn)生厭倦，41%的人表示他們看不到這段感情的未來(lái)，大概三分之一（34%）的人說(shuō)他們希望做些改變。還有20%的人悲觀地承認(rèn)他們不愛自己的伴侶。

But what’s the best time to take the plunge and get back on the market? Rather predictably January is the month when a quarter of us move on most quickly - less than a month after the big split.

什么樣的時(shí)機(jī)適合考慮一段新的戀情呢？四分之一的人會(huì)選擇在一月快速地展開行動(dòng)，而且是在分手后不到一個(gè)月的時(shí)間里。

eHarmony.co.uk psychologist Dr. Linda Papadopoulos comments: “The start of a New Year is a great time to take stock of everything in your life and work out what you want from the year ahead, be it a career change, new fitness plan or relationship reassessment.

eHarmony.co.uk的心理學(xué)家Linda博士稱：“一年之計(jì)在于春，新年是除舊迎新的時(shí)候，我們可以做新的工作計(jì)劃和健身方案，或者是考慮開始新的戀愛關(guān)系。”

"When it comes to love, our research shows that many people stay in relationships that they know are wrong for them for a huge a variety of reasons."

“我們的研究表明，有很多因素導(dǎo)致人們維持著不樂(lè)觀的感情?！?/font>

Yet, whilst this may feel like self-preservation, it can actually end up having a negative effect on self-confidence. By the same token, avoid rushing from one relationship to another and focus instead on your own happiness and well-being – the rest will follow.”

“雖然這樣的選擇看起來(lái)像是自我保護(hù)，事實(shí)上這最終會(huì)對(duì)我們的自信心產(chǎn)生負(fù)面影響。我們也要避免倉(cāng)促地開始新的戀情，要把自己真正的幸?？鞓?lè)放在首位，跟著感覺(jué)走?！?/font>

"Breaking up is hard to do, but..."

“分手很難，但是……”

Jemima Wade, expert for eHarmony.co.uk, comments: “They say that breaking up is hard to do, but it’s vital that you are in a relationship that makes you feel good.

eHarmony另一名專家Jemima Wade 說(shuō)：“雖然大家都覺(jué)得分手很困難，但是你一定要處在一段讓自己心情愉悅的戀情里?！?/font>

"We hear all the time about members who have bounced back after a bad relationship and found themselves happier than ever before with someone they’re truly compatible with.

“我們經(jīng)常得到會(huì)員的反饋，他們?cè)诮Y(jié)束一段糟糕的戀情后重新振作起來(lái)并且找到了真正適合自己的人，過(guò)得比以前開心很多。”

"That’s why eHarmony partners people on the things that matter – like your values, beliefs and character – finding better matches that really last.”

“所以eHarmony 在給會(huì)員配對(duì)的時(shí)候，會(huì)把價(jià)值觀、信仰和性格作為重要條件，這樣才可以為大家找到真正長(zhǎng)久的姻緣?！?/font>

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